Fast Spring Cleaning Tips

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Spring is just beginning, and it’s the season for cleaning.

Maybe you realize it’s time for spring cleaning, but you just don’t have the time. It happens, and it’s understandable.

But before summer creeps up on you, don’t let this season pass you by! Take advantage of some fast spring cleaning tips to get your house in order.

Get Rid of Old Pantyhose

Take a look at the pantyhose, socks, and leggings you have. Sort through yours to see if you have any that don’t fit, are too stretched out, are stained, or in the case of socks, those that don’t have a mate. You can Google ways to re-purpose pantyhose and socks and find ways to up-cycle these items that can no longer be worn. Things like using socks as cleaning rags, or using pantyhose for gardening to start seeds, are good ideas. But in the end, if it doesn’t work as part of your wardrobe, it shouldn’t be in your closet! Move those items out so they won’t waste any more of your time or energy. If need be, replacements for the things that no longer fit or are past the point of repair.

Guys, Donate Unwanted Ties

Guys, do you have ties that you haven’t worn in a long time and probably won’t ever wear again? Maybe you work in a job that will never ever require you to wear a tie. Or maybe your personal style has changed – maybe you used to wear lots of ties with cartoon characters on them but your style has matured and you go for a more sophisticated look. Either way, look at your collection of ties, and if you have more that what you want to keep, donate it! There’s bound to be a a thrift shop near you that will happily take your old neck ties. If you find that you need more ties for work or church, you can take care of that in less than five minutes here. There is also a lot of up-cycling potential in ties – the crafty ladies in your life might want to take these for various projects. (Just ask a girl that likes to play on Pinterest what she can do with a bunch of old ties – there are may things.)

Sort Through Children’s Items

While you’re watching TV or listening to a favorite podcast, you can sort through children’s clothing that you’ve just washed and dried, using a critical eye to make sure they still fit properly. Can the items be used as a hand-me-down for a sibling, or is it best to just get rid of the item? Pruning down items that no longer fit can make getting your child dressed much easier and for every child’s clothing item that you get rid of, when you discover that another is needed, you can order a new one.

Tips for Christian Guys Getting Back Into the Dating Scene

Are you a single Christian guy needing advice about how to get back into the dating scene? Maybe you’ve never dated at all, and your lack of experience is making you nervous. Perhaps you’ve been busy with other goals – things like college and work may have been more important than your social life. Or maybe you’ve been through a break-up or a divorce, but now you’re ready to date again. Take these tips for single Christian guys…

Free How to Write a Resume Tips

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When is the last time you looked at your resume? If your resume has been tucked away somewhere, it may take a drastic effort to update it. You might be asking yourself, “How do I get a resume for free?” or “How do I write a resume?” If you’re more experienced and more confident with the art of writing, you might just be wondering how you can spruce things up a bit to show how qualified you are.

If you’ve pulled a free resume from the internet to use as a starting point, that may help if you have no idea to start. But, if you’re a more seasoned pro, you might just be looking for stronger words to make your resume stronger. You might be wondering how to show accomplishment through a resume.

Below are some tips and some prompts through words that can guide you, like a brainstorming exercise. I hope you find these helpful as you start, build, or strengthen your resume.

Words for Workers in Creative or Educational Fields

It can be hard to show how hard you’ve worked in a creative field. Is your resume showing what you’ve done? Maybe you’re a creative worker, such as a teacher, coach, musician, photographer, artist, or non-profit worker. Perhaps you work in several fields and are piecing together a living. Maybe what you do helps people a great deal, but the results are hard to measure. Do any of these words accurately describe your work? Action words such as:

  • Acted
  • Advised
  • Coached
  • Collaborated
  • Composed
  • Counseled
  • Created
  • Developed
  • Directed
  • Evaluated
  • Implemented
  • Organized
  • Photographed
  • Planned
  • Raised funds for
  • Wrote

Words for Workers in People-Centered Fields

Are your results contingent upon people? Do you build good relationships with others? Maybe what you do is not reliant upon strong knowledge of a thing but on how well you can motivate others and get them to do what you want. You might be a manager or a life coach. Consider action words such as:

  • Advised
  • Coached
  • Collaborated
  • Communicated
  • Developed
  • Implemented
  • Led
  • Mentored
  • Organized
  • Oversaw
  • Planned
  • Scheduled
  • Supervised

Words for Workers in Technical Fields

Does your job rely on a lot of technical expertise? Is it thing-oriented? Do you have to know a lot about a particular subject matter, something that requires years of study to master? Or perhaps you are a writer, scientist, or you work in the medical field. Maybe these ideas will work for you:

  • Collaborated
  • Developed
  • Drafted
  • Invented
  • Measured
  • Mentored
  • Organized
  • Piloted
  • Planned
  • Published
  • Researched
  • Studied
  • Trained
  • Treated

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Should I Date An Unbeliever?

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Have you ever asked yourself if Christians should date non-believers? Maybe you’re new to the Christian life or you’ve been a Christian for a long time. If you’re a Christian churchgoer, you can ask the question, “Can a Christian date a non-believer?” Your pastor can give you a clear verse from the Bible indicating why the answer is “No, Christians should not date un-believers.”

However, I believe that after finding a Biblical answer to life’s questions, we can sometimes also see a scientific or practical reason to why things are so. God is so gracious to us that He does not tell us to “check your brain at the door”. Instead of God just saying “No, because I said so,” there are practical reasons why Christians should not date non-believers. We can think this through using our God-given logic. There are several reasons why Christians should avoid dating non-believers.

Dating can lead to marriage.

“Obviously”, you might be thinking. Here’s what I mean – one date can lead to another date, which can lead to another date, which can lead to a long term relationship, that can lead to moving in together. Unfortunately, this is not always a good thing. Some folks get locked into relationships where they just aren’t compatible or where one person wants a serious commitment and the other wants something casual. This can lead to resentment and tension from not being on the same page. Putting two people together who are Christians doesn’t guarantee a cakewalk, but it should make some pivotal conversations easier, or take them off the table entirely, because you have a common faith to work from.  “I can’t believe I wound up with this person” you might say, but it all started somewhere. Putting a little more thought into things on the front end might spare you a little heartache later on.

Are you looking for someone to share your values and worldview?

If you go beyond the surface of what a person looks like and the water cooler talk, what is this person really about? When their looks change, and both you and them have been through a major life change or two, what’s left? Do they share your values and your worldview? Will they still be interesting to talk to? If you’re a Christian and they’re a Christian, hopefully your faith will still be common ground for you both. Physical attraction is fun and important for the beginning of a relationship, but a person’s appearance can change over time. When the outside changes, will you still like what’s left on the inside?

It isn’t fair to ask (or expect) someone to change. 

I’m talking big, huge pieces of life here. If you’re a devout Christian dating a non-believer, you may have said that you don’t mind their belief system. And you are free to do as you wish. But deep down, in the secrecy of your own thoughts, are you wishing for a change? Are you hoping for that guy or girl to get saved? (If you love them, or even just like them, you are.) Are you hoping they’ll change from being an atheist to a believer and just accept Jesus? I hope with you for that to happen but I also know that staying stuck there in that situation is an unhappy place. Pray for them, love them from a distance, but don’t do “missionary dating”. Don’t hope for them to convert while you’re dating them. It’s not fair to them or to you.

Dating a non-believer makes chastity more difficult.

Similar to expecting people to change, it’s hard to stay on track with trying to practice chastity if you’re dating someone who doesn’t value that goal. Just because someone is a Christian doesn’t mean they’re interested in abstinence, but for the most part, there’s a worldview that dominates the media when it comes to sex: if both parties consent, it’s fine. This opposes the Christian worldview as laid out in the Bible that says it’s not fine until you’re married. Even if you want to. Even if you’re in a committed relationship. Teaming up with an unbeliever is really pointless if you’re serious about chastity and abstinence.

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